Disfellowshipping is always a last resort but some do choose it that way and as I have said before it is a choice we were allowed.

Is that the same strange use of the word 'choose' that is used when christians say a person 'chooses' to go to Hell?

The person who is disfellowshipped does not choose to be so, that's the choice of the other Witnesses, they are the ones who do the disfellowshipping, they are the ones exercising a choice.

It's cowardly to blame the victim.