There are a number of questions that I would like to see answers to before I can put a tent up in either camp. For instance ......
Why is she not acting as Mother to her other two kids?
Who was it that decided that she should not be looking after them?
According to records from the last few years, can she be trusted to take her medication as and when required?
Was the baby premature?
I ask that last one for a few reasons. For example, If the delivery was done even on the last day of her 2 week training course, then she was 8 and 1/2 months pregnant when she boarded the plane in Italy and,AFAIK, airlines don't let you fly so close to a mother's due date. It would also be very bad form for a company to make a mother make the trip so close to her due date. So was the mother being honest about when the baby was due? If she was telling porkies, why? Or have I read the story wrongly?
There are other questions that I would like to see answers for but those will do for now.