Trust

[tommy.irene]

Sexual Jealousy

A lot of people get jealous and possessive in relationships. They don’t like their partner talking with someone else, or hanging out with members of the opposite sex without them. Some people get even crazier. They get jealous about things that happened before they met their partner. They get jealous about things that might happen in the future. Hell, they get jealous about things that didn’t happen but could have happened.

Sexual jealousy is a waste of energy and toxic for your relationship.

It’s really simple: either you trust your partner or you don’t.

If you trust your partner, then shut your mouth. If you don’t trust your partner, do everyone a favor and dump them.

“Well, what if I trust them but they lie to me anyway?”

Then trust that one day you will find out. Dishonest people cannot hide their dishonesty forever. Eventually it will surface and be obvious. And on that day, dump them.

The worst part of sexual jealousy is that it drives your partner to commit the exact actions in which you’re trying to prevent them from doing in the first place. Imagine you’re dating somebody and this person is insanely jealous. Everything you do they accuse you of lying to them or sneaking around behind their back. Every person of the opposite sex you speak to they accuse you of flirting or freak out that you’re sleeping with 10 other people.

What’s stopping you from actually cheating then? I mean, you’re going to get yelled at whether you’re honest or not. Apparently they believe you’re a dishonest person anyway, so you may as well get the benefits from being dishonest, right? What’s stopping you from cheating? Not much.

[Anonymous]

What brought this on Tommy? Jeremy Kyle? LOL

[Anonymous]

Whoa !!!

Facts of life then  Tommy !! 

[rose2008-2008]

Good post. I have had seriously bad bouts of jealousy in my life (lovelife). Either jealousy from me about the man or women directing furious jealousy to me!!!. I dont get like it anymore its a waste of time.

The only thing i will say is i always dearly hope that cheating dishonest people always will get caught in the end. I have known cheaters men and women who carry on for years thinking its ok to be dishonest to a wife or husband. Sometimes it takes a while but they will always get found out. I just find it odd how some partners know but still stay seeming to put up a wall or stay in denial thinking it will go away if they just dont address it??. Strange.

[merehazle]

    Don't start me off Tommy.

'A lot of  people get jealous and possessive in relationships.'

Well you can't blame him can you. 

incidentally, there is some freak weather about. And the weather has turned quite warm here in East London, and we can hear almighty thunder storms  to the south of London. Well I  thought you would want to know that? 

[rose2008-2008]

My hackles will rise if anyone brings up this subject,,, i could go on forever!!!. LOL. I think the days of marrieage that lasts forever and true love have well and truly gone down the toilet pan!!!!!!!!!!!!. 😞

[mepixin12]

Aw rose, don't be downhearted, there are a lot of nice people out there, It's just the finding of them can be a little trixy.... I swore off serious relationships many years ago, lol I was very young, then along came my prince/princess charming.... and now over a decade later, better than ever. 🙂

[rose2008-2008]

Yes i know there are are a few good marriages and relationships but not so many now.. I always said i will walk down the aisle when im SIXTY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!... Another ten to shop around then LOL,LOL<

[mepixin12]

I'm sure they will be lucky to have you rose, better 10yrs of bliss, than 30 yrs of hell.

Let me know when it happens, lol I need a new hat.

[rose2008-2008]

OK YOUR ON CILLA HA HA OOOPS ER MEPIXIN

[saasher2012]

Nothing lasts forever! I don't know about jealousy , but the fact that someone has betrayed your trust & then can't understand why you no longer want to continue astounds me. You may be able to forgive but forget , no way! Best to move on.

[tommy.irene]

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@saasher2012 wrote:
Nothing lasts forever! I don't know about jealousy , but the fact that someone has betrayed your trust & then can't understand why you no longer want to continue astounds me. You may be able to forgive but forget , no way! Best to move on.

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Im in agreement with you ..I hurt a lot when it happened to me with my first wife..

[saasher2012]

You were lucky Tommy, you got a second chance. I don't think I will ever give it another go!

[merehazle]

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@saasher2012 wrote:
Nothing lasts forever! I don't know about jealousy , but the fact that someone has betrayed your trust & then can't understand why you no longer want to continue astounds me. You may be able to forgive but forget , no way! Best to move on.

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Im in agreement with you ..I hurt a lot when it happened to me with my first wife..

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Yes, and I  have evidence of that      >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

[saasher2012]

Magic! lol

[rose2008-2008]

Is that someones partner going through the mincer or the mower!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!... HA LOOOOOOL

[merehazle]

He will be going through BOTH!!! the mincer is in the kicthen.

I see you are still laying on layers of make up Rose.

Give it up dear. FRANK says he will always love you no matter how DESPERATE you are.

Oh, thanks for YOUR picture. And I'm sure you wont mind me showing it on here?

[rose2008-2008]

You sent me your picture too and i must put it up so everyone can see you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! LOL

[saasher2012]

Oh dear! That plastic surgeon needs a bit more practice don't ya think?

[rose2008-2008]

There was some gruesome ones on that site where this came from ha ha ha LOL.,,,,,,