You can't. Unless you have listed a collection only item and have negotiated with the buyer to deliver and then be recompensed.
You need to build all of your selling costs into the price you set for your items.
"There are two ways to be fooled. One is to believe what isn't true; the other is to refuse to believe what is true.”
Søren Kierkegaard, Danish philosopher (1813 - 1855)
