04-09-2020 7:24 AM
As @ruby*tuesday advises you if you used 1st or 2nd class for anything over a large letter there will be a 16-digit number which will show scanned at doorstep. That will do for eBay.
However you do need to have opened a case. The seller should have sent a label to return which has tracking which updates eBay's system.
The usual way is that you must open a case and before returning. You do need now to input the tracking or 16-digit number. If you really have not got that then I am afraid [seriously] that nothing can or will be done. The fact that the seller "agreed" to refund does not apply.
"Proof of delivery by Royal Mail" or no refund through eBay. The seller will damage his account if he were to refund without using eBay system