https://community.ebay.co.uk/t5/Member-To-Member-Support/Collection-in-person/m-p/8014669#M347867 <P>Collection in person , buyer has not been in touch 3 days after buying . Address and message sent within minutes of purchase . How long do I give the buyer before giving up ?&nbsp;</P> Fri, 27 Mar 2026 08:04:44 GMT vinla72 2026-03-27T08:04:44Z https://community.ebay.co.uk/t5/Member-To-Member-Support/Collection-in-person/m-p/8014669#M347867 <P>Collection in person , buyer has not been in touch 3 days after buying . Address and message sent within minutes of purchase . How long do I give the buyer before giving up ?&nbsp;</P> Fri, 27 Mar 2026 08:04:44 GMT https://community.ebay.co.uk/t5/Member-To-Member-Support/Collection-in-person/m-p/8014669#M347867 vinla72 2026-03-27T08:04:44Z https://community.ebay.co.uk/t5/Member-To-Member-Support/Collection-in-person/m-p/8014697#M347875 <P>It's up to you.</P> <P>Personally, I would wait a few days and then message them again.</P> <P>If hey don't respond to that second message, wait a few more days and then message saying you will cancel the sale and refund the buyer if the item is not collected by a certain date.</P> Fri, 27 Mar 2026 08:58:28 GMT https://community.ebay.co.uk/t5/Member-To-Member-Support/Collection-in-person/m-p/8014697#M347875 jckl1957 2026-03-27T08:58:28Z https://community.ebay.co.uk/t5/Member-To-Member-Support/Collection-in-person/m-p/8014700#M347876 <P>I would not waste too much time, other than one final message giving x days to collect or sale will be cancelled and refund made.</P> Fri, 27 Mar 2026 09:02:51 GMT https://community.ebay.co.uk/t5/Member-To-Member-Support/Collection-in-person/m-p/8014700#M347876 john1297576 2026-03-27T09:02:51Z