Question Re: Sexual harrassement on eBay in Member To Member Support DO NOT DELETE

Sexual harrassement on eBay

pastadenbon — Wed, 30 Sep 2020 15:50:25 GMT

Who else is exspiriencing sexual harassment on eBay ?

i d like to know must be many people ...

pelple coming on here with the only purpose of sending messages asking for naked pictures soiled underwear and so on ...

ebay provides no option to block these people from messaging and they seem to not want to do anything about it .

Re: Sexual harrassement on eBay

arkwebus — Wed, 30 Sep 2020 16:03:04 GMT

Sadly some of your listings draw them in. It is not a good idea to use live models for display of - for example - bikinis.

You can block them from messaging. Go to help and contact and search "block messages". I think you can stop all members doing so.

@pastadenbon

Re: Sexual harrassement on eBay

thedemon2014 — Wed, 30 Sep 2020 16:04:00 GMT

You have posted on a Quick Answer Board where members can ask for help on specific transactions.

If you just want an in-depth discussion perhaps you would be better to re-post on one of the Discussion Boards.

You cannot stop members messaging you, but you can stop them bidding/buying your items:

https://www.ebay.co.uk/help/selling/resolving-buyer-issues/blocking-buyer-ebay?id=4082&st=12&pos=1&query=Blocking%20a%20buyer%20on%20eBay&intent=block%20bidder

Re: Sexual harrassement on eBay

1956glyn — Thu, 01 Oct 2020 09:16:31 GMT

Sorry but i just had to laugh at one of your sold listings pastadenbon......stripper doll boots for Barbie etc 😞

That will kill the poor girls reputation 🙂

Re: Sexual harrassement on eBay

john1297576 — Thu, 01 Oct 2020 09:21:28 GMT

You use the Blocked Bidders List and use the facility to Block Messages.

I suspect that persistant offenders can find ways round this but don't make it easy.

As already said, ads. should not be such that they invite these people.

Re: Sexual harrassement on eBay

1956glyn — Thu, 01 Oct 2020 09:29:35 GMT

Read these two links. Yes you can block members from contacting you.

https://offer.ebay.co.uk/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?BidderBlockLogin

https://offer.ebay.co.uk/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?BuyerBlockPreferences

Re: Sexual harrassement on eBay

red_magpie — Thu, 01 Oct 2020 09:31:44 GMT

You have already been told how to block messages.

At one time there was a link in every message to report inappropriate content. This was removed, probably because ebay has more or less given up trying to deal with the endless torrent of insults and abuse beteen members.

For serious abuse of the messaging system like this I suggest that you phone eBy customer support to complain. You haven't told us whether you have already done this? People shouldn't be allwed to get away with this behaviour, but this is eBay's site and if they won't act on it there's nothing much more you can do.

Except, of course, refrain from using live models to model underwear etc. Most of the sellers who ask us about creepy behaviour have attracted the attentionof undesirables by the photos they use.

Re: Sexual harrassement on eBay

pastadenbon — Mon, 08 Mar 2021 07:31:52 GMT

Hello red_magpie was you replying to me ? Saying I already been told how to block messages ? Sorry but did I have a conversation with you at some point? I m a bit confused how you know what I have been told or not ...and darling it is not possible to block members from messaging if you was unaware of that .you can only block people from buying and people who send these dirty messages have no intention of buying hence why they sending such messages .for your information I have reported all these people to eBay ok

Re: Sexual harrassement on eBay

pastadenbon — Mon, 08 Mar 2021 07:34:16 GMT

And red_magpie by the way you added at the bottom most sellers who receive creepy behavior have attracted the attention of undesirables by the photos they use ...really? Is that your option for photos of feet in sandals yeah ? Because these are the photos to which I was receiving dirty messages ok babe

Re: Sexual harrassement on eBay

pastadenbon — Mon, 08 Mar 2021 07:36:29 GMT

Lol yeah well I mean young girls used to want to be princesses and nurses now it seems they want to be strippers like cardigan b

Re: Sexual harrassement on eBay

pastadenbon — Mon, 08 Mar 2021 07:37:42 GMT

Arkwebus i understand but I was receiving such messages more over my feet in sandals is the thing dear

Re: Sexual harrassement on eBay

pastadenbon — Mon, 08 Mar 2021 07:39:04 GMT

And I do not understand why people keep replying to me about I can block the messages...I m confused for that because that is not possible even eBay told me this multiple times I can only block members from buying and members sending such messages got no intention of buying ...