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Jealousy.

tommy.irene — Fri, 21 Mar 2014 17:55:35 GMT

Sexual Jealousy A lot of people get jealous and possessive in relationships. They don’t like their partner talking with someone else, or hanging out with members of the opposite sex without them. Some people get even crazier. They get jealous about things that happened before they met their partner. They get jealous about things that might happen in the future. Hell, they get jealous about things that didn’t happen but could have happened. Sexual jealousy is a waste of energy and toxic for your relationship. It’s really simple: either you trust your partner or you don’t. If you trust your partner, then shut your mouth. If you don’t trust your partner, do everyone a favor and dump them. “Well, what if I trust them but they lie to me anyway?” Then trust that one day you will find out. Dishonest people cannot hide their dishonesty forever. Eventually it will surface and be obvious. And on that day, dump them. The worst part of sexual jealousy is that it drives your partner to commit the exact actions in which you’re trying to prevent them from doing in the first place. Imagine you’re dating somebody and this person is insanely jealous. Everything you do they accuse you of lying to them or sneaking around behind their back. Every person of the opposite sex you speak to they accuse you of flirting or freak out that you’re sleeping with 10 other people. What’s stopping you from actually cheating then? I mean, you’re going to get yelled at whether you’re honest or not. Apparently they believe you’re a dishonest person anyway, so you may as well get the benefits from being dishonest, right? What’s stopping you from cheating? Not much.

Re: Jealousy.

saasher2012 — Fri, 21 Mar 2014 18:08:43 GMT

Blimey Tommy! That's a bit deep ain't it but I have to agree with most of it!.

Re: Jealousy.

rose2008-2008 — Fri, 21 Mar 2014 19:36:59 GMT

Something along this line was spoken about before. mmmmm i used to be jealous a lot,,boiling mad with it until one day i realized, theres no point. The other person is either not meant for you or if they go on to someone else who is not right, one day they will see it and see the error of their ways and pay the penalty. This goes for married or unmarried people. And a person who cheats will eventually get found out!!. Their problem!!!!!.

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merehazle — Fri, 21 Mar 2014 20:40:27 GMT

@rose2008-2008 wrote:
Something along this line was spoken about before. mmmmm i used to be jealous a lot,,boiling mad with it until one day i realized, theres no point. The other person is either not meant for you or if they go on to someone else who is not right, one day they will see it and see the error of their ways and pay the penalty. This goes for married or unmarried people. And a person who cheats will eventually get found out!!. Their problem!!!!!.

Hear hear well said. And we all must remain calm. Just like Rose.

shhusss... Uncle FRANK still loves you Rose (wink)

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rose2008-2008 — Sun, 23 Mar 2014 11:13:18 GMT

Glad someone loves meeeeee Yipeeeeeeeeeeee xxxxxxxxxxxx

Re: Jealousy.

rose2008-2008 — Sun, 23 Mar 2014 11:14:07 GMT

I hope your not insinuating im not CALM?????.